{"id":1053,"date":"2025-06-05T15:23:53","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T15:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/?p=1053"},"modified":"2025-07-03T22:03:26","modified_gmt":"2025-07-03T22:03:26","slug":"negativity-comes-in-many-forms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/negativity-comes-in-many-forms\/","title":{"rendered":"Negativity Comes In Many Forms"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>With all up the upheaval in our professional lives, waking up in a \u201cbad mood\u201d can feel like an everyday occurrence. It can make us want to hide and isolate ourselves from friends, family and life in general. In fact, we may not even be aware at how much negativity has affected our day-to-day thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Negativity can feel like a vicious cycle: you try your best to be positive, but then you get another text, email or have a conversation that sends you on a downward spiral. Prolonged periods of cynical thinking, denial and catastrophizing can create neural pathways in the brain that encourage sadness. These feelings can cause our brain to distort the truth and make it even more difficult to break the negative cycle. There are some common types of negativity that we may not even realize we\u2019re falling victim to. Here are 7 examples:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Filtering:<\/strong> Only noticing the bad and filtering out the positive or good in an event or situation (ie- only focusing on the few criticisms in a performance review and not hearing all of the positive feedback).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Jumping to Conclusions:<\/strong> Assuming something bad will happen because of circumstances in the present.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Catastrophizing:<\/strong> Believing that disaster is inevitable.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Blaming:<\/strong> Blaming others for your circumstances and feeling that you are a victim to life\u2019s uncontrollable events.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Emotional Reasoning:<\/strong> Defining what\u2019s real and what\u2019s not based purely on your emotions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Fallacy of Change:<\/strong> Believing that if people or circumstances change, you\u2019ll be happy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Heaven\u2019s Reward Fallacy:<\/strong> Assuming there will always be a reward for hard work and sacrifice. When the reward doesn\u2019t happen, you become bitter and depressed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Negative thoughts and emotions are a natural response to challenges in our life, but extended bouts can result in health issues, both physical and mental. Negativity sends our body into \u2018fight-or-flight\u2019 mode. We deal with stressful situations by releasing cortisol into the bloodstream, making us more alert and focused. And although some stress is good for us, extended periods of negativity can cause a host of side effects, including:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Slower digestion and upset stomach<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Decrease in the immune system\u2019s ability to fight inflammation<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Headaches<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fatigue<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sleep problems or insomnia<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Drastic changes in metabolism (i.e. overeating or under-eating)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re probably thinking, \u201cGreat! Now I\u2019m not only dealing with work uncertainty, but I\u2019m doing harm to my health as well!\u201d The good news (and there is some!) is that negativity is a habit that can be broken. It\u2019s not easy when you\u2019re in the midst of chaos, but it is possible. We\u2019ll look at some techniques to help in our next article. Working with a coach, like <strong>Leah M Joppy and Associates<\/strong>, can also provide a fresh perspective, goal setting and accountability that can help break the cycle of negativity. You want to feel like you\u2019re moving forward &#8211; coaching can help you get there and feel less \u201cstuck\u201d. To learn more, call us at 301-670-0051 or email us at <a href=\"mailto:leah@lmja.com\">leah@lmja.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Note: Our \u2018Purposeful Retirement\u2019 seminar on June 28<sup>th<\/sup> will now be held via Zoom. <\/strong>To learn more and register, please visit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eventbrite.com\/e\/purposeful-retirement-workshop-love-your-next-chapter-tickets-1325629667019\">https:\/\/www.eventbrite.com\/e\/purposeful-retirement-workshop-love-your-next-chapter-tickets-1325629667019<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With all up the upheaval in our professional lives, waking up in a \u201cbad mood\u201d can feel like an everyday occurrence. It can make us want to hide and isolate ourselves from friends, family and life in general. In fact, we may not even be aware at how much negativity has affected our day-to-day thinking. 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