{"id":826,"date":"2023-03-12T21:36:22","date_gmt":"2023-03-12T21:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/?p=826"},"modified":"2023-03-12T21:36:22","modified_gmt":"2023-03-12T21:36:22","slug":"finding-confidence-in-our-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/finding-confidence-in-our-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Confidence In Our Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/art-1.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-828 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/art-1-300x261.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"261\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/art-1-300x261.png 300w, http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/art-1-768x667.png 768w, http:\/\/www.lmja.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/art-1.png 860w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>American philosopher and psychologist William James once said that, \u201cMost people live in a restricted circle of potential.\u201d Although he made this observation over a century ago, it still holds true today. When it comes to fulfilling our potential, it\u2019s often not a lack of resources, opportunity or intelligence, but a lack of self-confidence. We often become our own worst enemy when we continually doubt ourselves and listen to the self-defeating voices in our head.<\/p>\n<p>Many of us mistakenly believe that confidence is something certain lucky people are born with and the rest of us are just futilely trying to find it. But confidence is simply the outcomes of our own thoughts and actions. It\u2019s the <strong><em>belief<\/em><\/strong> in our ability to succeed at a task. For example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Our <em>belief<\/em> that we can give a speech in front of an audience<\/li>\n<li>Our <em>belief<\/em> that we can exit an unhealthy relationship and find one more fulfilling<\/li>\n<li>Our <em>belief<\/em> that we can change career paths or start a business<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You get the picture. Our brain tells us a lot \u2013 some of it\u2019s true, but a lot of it isn\u2019t. It\u2019s those untrue, self-defeating thoughts that hold us back from taking the steps necessary for meaningful change. On the flipside, self-confidence gives us the courage to break out of our comfort zone and face fears head-on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Benefits of Self-Confidence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no doubt about it \u2013 having confidence in ourselves feels good! However, there are many other benefits that confidence brings to our lives. Here\u2019s a look at a few:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>More resilience:<\/strong> Resilience is the ability to cope with and recover from setbacks. Higher levels of self-confidence enhance your resiliency and help you bounce back from life\u2019s challenges.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Healthier relationships:<\/strong> When you have confidence in yourself, it helps you better understand and care for others. It also helps you identify relationships that aren\u2019t healthy and gives you the strength to move on.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Better performance:<\/strong> Many of us waste our time worrying that we\u2019re not good enough. Self-confidence doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not going to make mistakes or even fail, but it will help you devote your energy to what matters instead of self-deprecating thoughts. And that translates to better performance no matter what task is in front of you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Willingness to try new things:<\/strong> Whether you want to sign up for a class, learn a new skill or tackle that half marathon, self-confidence makes you more willing to try new things and put yourself out there.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We can all relate to the ebb and flow of confidence throughout our lives. Even if you\u2019ve spent years doubting your abilities and feeling like you can\u2019t take the steps to break out of self-defeating beliefs, it\u2019s never too late to change course. Working with a coach, like <strong>Leah M Joppy and Associates<\/strong>, can put you on the right path towards greater self-confidence. You\u2019ll learn <em>why<\/em> you\u2019re stuck in a pattern of negative thoughts, how you can break the cycle, tools you can use to bring lasting change and so much more.<\/p>\n<p>Contact us today at <strong>301-670-0051<\/strong> or email <a href=\"mailto:leah@lmja.com\">leah@lmja.com<\/a> and let\u2019s squash those negative thoughts and enhance your life through strengthened confidence!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>American philosopher and psychologist William James once said that, \u201cMost people live in a restricted circle of potential.\u201d Although he made this observation over a century ago, it still holds true today. When it comes to fulfilling our potential, it\u2019s often not a lack of resources, opportunity or intelligence, but a lack of self-confidence. 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